{"id":575,"date":"2016-04-18T07:00:27","date_gmt":"2016-04-18T11:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/?p=575"},"modified":"2019-10-03T15:06:34","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T19:06:34","slug":"o-oops-plan-es","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/?p=575","title":{"rendered":"O: Oops Plan (ES)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Oops Plan<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/O.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-499\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-499\" src=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/O.jpg\" alt=\"O\" width=\"119\" height=\"119\" srcset=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/O.jpg 200w, http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/O-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 119px) 100vw, 119px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all make mistakes. Mistakes are an important part of learning. When I was teaching older elementary students (10 and 11-year-olds) I would discuss with them the importance of learning from mistakes. I\u2019m not sure exactly when and where I got hold of the \u201cOops Plan\u201d, but it helped students learn different strategies for dealing with mistakes they made. I assume I got it from one of the school counselors or psychologists.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can read the complete Oops plan here: <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/school\/Oops.pdf\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">http:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/school\/oops.pdf<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/oops.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-576\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-576\" src=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/oops-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Oops.\" width=\"141\" height=\"188\" srcset=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/oops-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/oops.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 141px) 100vw, 141px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In short, here are the strategies (without the examples that were used to help define them.):<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Oops Plan<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everybody everywhere makes mistakes. Often we don\u2019t feel that good about it when we make mistakes and we try to do other things to cover up the fact that we just made a mistake. If you think this is happening to you, read through the following steps and see if you are using any of these strategies. Sometimes it can help you realize that the mistake wasn\u2019t that bad. Each of these strategies have their own time and place, but they can get in the way of your mistakes. Mistakes are a great way to learn things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Denial<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; \u201cNo, I didn\u2019t do it. It didn\u2019t happen.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Ignore<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; \u201cI know it happened, but I\u2019m pretending like it didn\u2019t.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Lie<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; \u201cI know it happened, but I\u2019m not telling you.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Blame<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; \u201cI know it happened, but it\u2019s your fault.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Guilt<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; \u201cI know it happened, I did it, and I feel bad.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Remorse<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; \u201cI know it happened. I did it. I feel bad. I want to do something about it.\u201d <\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Prevention<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; \u201cI know it happened. I did it. I feel bad. I don\u2019t want it to happen again.\u201d <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I would discuss the Oops Plan at the beginning of the year with my class. We might share examples that fit our own lives. We differentiated between making mistakes on a test and making mistakes on a decision. We talked about how certain strategies were better than others. The students each had a copy of the Oops plan glued into one of their notebooks. Whenever one of my students made a mistake in their actions, all I needed to say was \u201cOops, What are you going to do about it?\u201d Or \u201cOops, what strategy do you think you should use?\u201d \u00a0The more I relied on the students to take control of their own behavior and actions, the more learning I believe was gained. That is not to say there weren\u2019t times where I did take control and did tell them what I wanted them to do to resolve issues that they may have had due to mistakes that were made, or told them specifically what strategy that they were using, but for the most part I encouraged them to use the Oops Plan themselves and work towards a self-awareness that would help them throughout their lives. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oops Plan We all make mistakes. Mistakes are an important part of learning. When I was teaching older elementary students (10 and 11-year-olds) I would discuss with them the importance of learning from mistakes. 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