{"id":2268,"date":"2020-10-22T17:11:33","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T21:11:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/?p=2268"},"modified":"2020-10-22T20:37:21","modified_gmt":"2020-10-23T00:37:21","slug":"the-invite-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/?p=2268","title":{"rendered":"The Invitation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>The Invitation<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For Harry it was a simple question, \u201cShould I go or not?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Julie looked at him with frustration on her face, \u201cIt\u2019s your decision, make up your own mind.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBut why do I have to make the decision. You were invited too.\u201d, he replied.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBut they\u2019re your friends. I\u2019d only go because you work with them.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harry had no answer for that. \u201cSo we should go. I mean she invited the whole office.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cReally,\u201d she said, \u201cJust because everyone else is going you\u2019ll go.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWell, I wouldn\u2019t want to be the only one that missed the party.\u201d Harry looked a little worried. \u201cI mean, she is the boss and my job may be impacted by not going.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSo then go, decision made, just don\u2019t expect me to be sociable with those opinionated self-know-it-alls you work with. You don\u2019t even like them yourself.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSo then maybe we shouldn\u2019t go.\u201d Harry was now getting very confused, which was not unusual.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cLike I said it\u2019s your decision,\u201d Julie said matter of factly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBut I want your opinion.\u201d Harry pleaded.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Julie was quick to respond, \u201cBut you\u2019re not going to get it, since it\u2019s your party.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since the party wasn\u2019t for another hour, Harry just sat there perplexed, After about ten minutes of letting his mind wander, he made a decision.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOkay, I\u2019ve decided. We\u2019re going to the party.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Julie just looked at him and replied, \u201cReally? That\u2019s what you decided? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harry was totally perplexed. \u201cSo you don\u2019t think we should go?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Julie answered, \u201cI didn\u2019t say that.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBut you inferred it. You always do this to me. You tell me to make the decision then you tell me it was the wrong one.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI never tell you your decisions are wrong. I just think there are better choices.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harry was getting very frustrated. \u201cThis is a yes or no question. A better choice means that I made the wrong one!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou said it, not me.\u201d Julie scoffed. \u201cI hope you enjoy yourself at the party.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhat do you mean? You\u2019re not coming?\u201d Harry asked.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou did say we were both invited, that means that I have a choice too. I decided I\u2019m not going.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was at that time the phone rang. Julie picked up. \u201cYes, he\u2019s here, hold on.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harry got on the phone and listened for a while. He thanked the person on the other end and hung up the phone. He turned towards Julie and said, \u201cThe party\u2019s canceled.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhy, what happened?\u201c\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harry looked at her with a smile, \u201cIt seems the boss and three of those opinionated know-it-alls that you were so vocal about, have tested positive for Covid-19. We have the next two weeks together in self-quarantine. So what should we do?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Julie looking forlorn said, \u201cYou decide.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Decision-quandry.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2269\" src=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Decision-quandry-300x158.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"158\" srcset=\"http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Decision-quandry-300x158.jpg 300w, http:\/\/hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Decision-quandry.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Invitation For Harry it was a simple question, \u201cShould I go or not?\u201d Julie looked at him with frustration on her face, \u201cIt\u2019s your decision, make up your own mind.\u201d \u201cBut why do I have to make the decision. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/?p=2268\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,7],"tags":[269,67],"class_list":["post-2268","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-original-stories","category-story-writing","tag-decisions","tag-harvey-heilbrun"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2268","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2268"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2268\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2273,"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2268\/revisions\/2273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2268"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2268"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2268"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}