{"id":1087,"date":"2018-04-01T07:00:48","date_gmt":"2018-04-01T11:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/?p=1087"},"modified":"2018-04-21T21:42:46","modified_gmt":"2018-04-22T01:42:46","slug":"adulthood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hdhstory.net\/Storyblog\/?p=1087","title":{"rendered":"A – Adulthood"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Adulthood<\/b><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t decide whether I was dreaming or not. There I was sitting in a park minding my own business when two people came up to me and started debating the benefits and pitfalls of being an adult. I\u2019m not sure why I got to be their audience for this but it stopped me from doing what I was planning to do in the park. Because of their debate, I can\u2019t even remember why I was sitting in the park. I hate when that happens. They introduced themselves to me as Otto and Herman, and clearly, they were not on the same side of the debating team. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Otto began his tirade. <\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cWhy would one ever want to be an adult? You don\u2019t get a chance to breathe. You\u2019re working all of the time. Constantly listening to others tell how you should live your life; do your work; spend your free time; raise your kids\u2026 It\u2019s ridiculous. Give me my childhood where I had time to play and not worry about my future. Where there was always someone else looking out for me, not letting me get in trouble, and I was not responsible for anyone but myself. Now that is where we all should be.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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Herman interrupted, \u201cWho says you are responsible for anyone else but yourself, as an adult? You choose who you want to play with; you are the one that makes decisions about life, family and determines the direction you go in. Sure others may give you advice, but it is your choice whether to follow or not. Childhood, may have its perks of more play time but a lot of those decisions made by people looking out for you, may not be the choices you would like to take, yet you must.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWhat about the responsibility to survive?\u201d, answered Otto. \u00a0You need to make money, have a job, pay for all your food, clothing, the mortgage on your house. If you\u2019re lucky you can earn enough to take a vacation. And what about old age? You need to save for that or else you\u2019re out of luck. Way too much pressure! Too much stress. Things are just not fun anymore.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cCertainly there are issues you have to deal with as an adult and you do have to plan for the future and earn a living to pay for your wants and needs,\u201d Herman retorted, \u201cbut you\u2019re the one in control. It only becomes stressful if you don\u2019t do things that are fun. You \"\"<\/a>need to enjoy the work you do. Don\u2019t do it just because you have to. Adults have the opportunity to seek out others in their lives to help guide them to a better place. In childhood, you have very few friends that stand the test of time. There are other kids in playgroups, school, recreation teams you are on, but when those end, you move on. In fact, the people that help you the most are the adults. As an adult, you get to be that helper. You get to follow those children, if you choose, and become important to their lives. Doesn\u2019t that make you feel good?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Otto just said, \u201cHarrumph!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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The next thing I knew, I was sitting on my couch while the television was droning on about some product or another. Was I watching one of those PBS science shows about \u201cGrowing Up\u201d or just nodding off and playing one of my own dramas in my head? <\/span><\/p>\n

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And what about my thoughts on being an adult vs. child? I certainly can see the benefits of both. Given a choice I think I\u2019ll stick with being an adult, preferably on the younger side of it, which I know is not a reality. But it\u2019s something I can dream about. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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